Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos...
by XorNot on Saturday February 06, 2021 @07:32PM
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Is it?
It seems weird to say "well you signed some papers, so it's extremely valuable that you're together for some legal purposes rather then happy".
The point of repairing a relationship is to remember that you once were happy and can be again by correcting behaviors and the like. But it seems bizarre to assume that's assured - it's even more bizarre to think it would be wrong to acknowledge that maybe you'd only wind up content but not happy, and so a separation is still preferable.
Or that actually you'd be happier alone then with someone else, but not exactly miserable if you were still with them etc.
It seems weird to say "well you signed some papers, so it's extremely valuable that you're together for some legal purposes rather then happy".
The point of repairing a relationship is to remember that you once were happy and can be again by correcting behaviors and the like. But it seems bizarre to assume that's assured - it's even more bizarre to think it would be wrong to acknowledge that maybe you'd only wind up content but not happy, and so a separation is still preferable.
Or that actually you'd be happier alone then with someone else, but not exactly miserable if you were still with them etc.