Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than those with sons

Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by blabitty on Saturday February 06, 2021 @04:13PM (#26049990)

Not being snarky at all but isn't the answer to this always going to reduce to "have as many offspring with as many partners as possible"?

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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by belorn on Saturday February 06, 2021 @05:34PM (#26050691)

If that would be true then there would not exist any pair bonding species, and there is some excellent benefits from it. Two parents mean one backup while raising the children, and two parents is double the parenting. Two parents also give some potential benefits with twins, something which pair bonding species tend to have a lot of while non-pair bonding species don't. The primary argument in favor of pair-bonding is that having a lot of offspring that don't reproduce is worse than having a few that do.

Humans with our great variations of behaviors has both pair bonding behavior and non-pair bonding behavior, with genes that code for both. If one strategy was always superior to the other then we would have settled for it a long time ago.

(Its a law or something when talking about genes that the behavior is always a gene-enivorment interaction, and there are likely many more factors that influence pair bonding behavior).

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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by throwawayboise on Saturday February 06, 2021 @04:31PM (#26050127)

Maybe not? It doesn't much matter if you have a lot of offspring, if the offspring don't survive and reproduce. It's an optimization problem of having enough offspring and being able to ensure that they survive to adulthood.

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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by alexvoda on Saturday February 06, 2021 @07:29PM (#26051497)

The key is to apply the strategy of the cookoo bird and have others care for your offspring out of their own interest.

I remembered a case of of a obstetrician impregnating multiple patients but a Google search(1) easily proved this was not an isolated case as the first few links are all separate incidents.

(1) https://www.google.com/search?q=obstetrician+used+own+sperm

As immoral as this strategy sounds I admit it is probably the most effective strategy from an investment/returns pov. It is cheaper than becoming Genghis Khan(2) and the effect is comparable.

(2) https://www.nature.com/news/genghis-khan-s-genetic-legacy-ha...

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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by andrewflnr on Saturday February 06, 2021 @04:35PM (#26050178)

The only people who can historically get away with that are high status men (less so women, since child bearing is intrinsically metabolically and temporally expensive). Globally/long run, it's not a great strategy, certainly not compatible with modern ideas of liberty.

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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by garbagetime on Saturday February 06, 2021 @06:46PM (#26051260)

If life gets easier and easier (e.g. government guarantees housing, income, education, etc.) then I can see that becoming nearer the truth.

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