In order for then to be out of touch from their generation, you would also had to isolate them from peers basically. Other then that, influencing media they use and hobbies they have is just run off mill parenting most parents engage in at least to some extend.
Look, this is somewhat true. But as a kid, I assure you that parents who treat their children like best friends (like my dad does) are very capable of influencing their kid's interests. Forcing or pressuring a kid into doing x never works long-term.
The social harm can potentially happen if parent is preventing contact with peers and their culture too much.
Yep. But, the best thing my parents ever did for me was not allowing me to use a phone until I was 16. I still had a laptop I could communicate with friends from, but the physical barrier to constant communication was incredibly important to help me not develop an addiction to all things internet.
My son is 6 months. The only non-negotiable part of his media diet will be the LucasArts point-and-clicks.