More people need to realize that Open Source projects are a gift from the authors to the software community. Other developers do not have the right to make changes, push for the development to go in a certain direction, etc. If an author wants that they'll turn stewardship over to a committee and maybe be part of such a committee. You have only two rights with Open Source work you want to work differently: fork it or forget about it (i.e., not use it). Anything else is a massive gift from the maintainer(s) and should be viewed as such.
And yeah, as you can tell from the last paragraph I'll proudly wear an Arsehole button to avoid wearing a Burnout button. Heck, to borrow from Bruce Lee in Snowcrash, I'd even wear a "12 Gauge" button to avoid burnout (button only though, the behavior is not for me).