That’s what my adopted daughter and her older sibling would do. They were taken young. But older sibling started crap every place they got sent. Not the sort of stuff that can be ignored.

Finally they were separated in the system.

At first we were like “that’s horrible”

Now. We just wish it had been done a lot sooner.

Some people are hell bent on self destruction, and will take everyone down with them.

It took 7 years for our adopted daughter to finally realize and know we actually do love her.