I am the sysadmin and owner of my machine, not Apple or some other organization. They have no business telling me what software I can and can't run, or what files that software can access.
You can't publish any software you want on the App Store.
> Beginning in macOS 10.14.5, software signed with a new Developer ID certificate and all new or updated kernel extensions must be notarized to run. Beginning in macOS 10.15, all software built after June 1, 2019, and distributed with Developer ID must be notarized
So, no. You need Apple's approval to be able to create software that can actually be ran by end-users even if you do not distribute using the App Store.
Second, notarisation is not an "approval". It is a malware scan.
The only thing that requires notarisation, which, again, is not "approval", is kernel extensions.
You're making excuses for the lack of security innovation on Linux workstations. They've fallen behind.