I had the same question for a while, but I did get to a place where I'm happy with the amount of work I'm doing (I have a nearly six-month-old myself).

I did it by switching to contracting and starting to work with recruiters, and wrote about the whole thing here:

https://devcareer.elliotbonneville.com/

Hopefully that helps. It's one path for sure. Let me know if you have any questions.