Well you list the company name and enough ethical failings can be found for that also

I'm certain the small startup I work for hasn't failed too badly ethically. But I don't own a home in SF so... failure?

They may not have failed ethically yet.

It’s virtually impossible for a company the size of Facebook to be free of controversies.

But then I'd just find another job (when it was clear that something was rotten). There's an argument here about the ethics of having helped build something that ultimately became terrible, however I don't think inability to predict the future equals complicity.