I am lonely will anyone speak to me

Re:I am lonely will anyone speak to me by nicbou on Friday December 25, 2020 @03:17AM (#25535073)

I think #4 can be explained by a simple phenomenon: if a group is defined by people's desire to leave it, it will eventually be populated mostly by those who can't.

This is how many such communities become toxic over time.

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Re:I am lonely will anyone speak to me by DoreenMichele on Friday December 25, 2020 @04:13AM (#25535301)

I know a few things that work. I'm trying to replicate some best practices I know work.

This is just a challenging problem space. Some things are actually hard to do.

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Re:I am lonely will anyone speak to me by durnygbur on Friday December 25, 2020 @03:58AM (#25535240)

e.g. dating apps

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Re:I am lonely will anyone speak to me by imtringued on Friday December 25, 2020 @05:55AM (#25535715)

I heard that "incels" consider people who finally succeed in their dating life as traitors and therefore as people who didn't belong in the community in the first place.

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Re:I am lonely will anyone speak to me by tinus_hn on Friday December 25, 2020 @05:29AM (#25535614)

> it will eventually be populated mostly by those who can't.

Or won’t

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