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Re:Lonely people's brains are different due to excess of ima... by voisin on Tuesday December 15, 2020 @12:37PM (#25432592)
I concur with this comment about social anxiety. After incorporating some mindfulness meditation into my daily routine, I have noticed a stark decline in how much I replay conversations (as per another comment here) and how much I rehearse potential future conversations (which never go the way you rehearse! Off topic: Mike Tyson’s quote is good here: “Everyone’s got a plan until they get punched in the face.”). I think both of these acts (past rumination and future rehearsal) are big parts of social anxiety that lessen with mindfulness.

As for having imaginary conversations with real people I know that are neither repeats of past conversations nor rehearsals of future conversations, I think there may have been a slight decline but I didn’t do a ton of this prior.

TL;DR: I think mindfulness meditation helps with this.

Re:Lonely people's brains are different due to excess of ima... by Flex247A on Tuesday December 15, 2020 @12:40PM (#25432638)
Thanks for the detailed reply! Will check up on mindfulness meditation.