Yes, couchettes are differ a bit in hardness, but not everyone can sleep on them (I can about half of the time); in other languages they're called "lying-down cars", as opposed to "sleeping cars", where you get a proper mattress. I've never seen someone use a sleeping pad on top, but you could definitely try; I have thought of doing that too but not tried it yet. It would be easier if you get on a bit earlier in the evening, or the starting station.