There's always a "but", isn't there? "I'm not racist, but [racist shit]..." "I don't mean to be rude, but [rude shit]..." "I'm not a Trump supporter, but [parrots Trump's lies]..."

Whatever comes after the "but" always proves whatever came before the "but" was a lie. That's what "but" means.

Again: where do you draw the line? Tell me what he'd have to do in order for you to give a shit? This time, try not using the word "but".