See my reply on a parallel comment. I will be moving to a more diverse area.

It's remarkable how "I don't like the Bay Area" translates so easily to "racist dogwhistle".

Quality of life means things like:

- "there are children in my neighborhood"

- "I don't need to keep looking over my shoulder at the playground with my children"

- "I can get a 15-yr mortgage on a house that is 2000 sqft, be financially stable, and safely deal with recurring large medical expenses that we will always have due to pre-existing conditions"

Here are some other "quality of life" issues:

- Massive seasonal forest fires that have become normalized

- Risk (however small) of a catastrophic earthquake

- Dangerous public transport

- Piles of feces, needles, and general filth on (some) city sidewalks

- Daily bumper-to-bumper traffic on freeways from 8AM-11AM and 1PM-6PM

- Extreme regulatory burden and cost of normal things like starting a business, building a home or addition, and owning firearms

I don't think many people are attempting to raise children in SF proper, where this anecdote takes place, but walking into a safeway parking lot and having to dodge used needles is not what I would call high quality of life.

Although in all fairness, I am not aware of the drug situation in other parts of the country.

There are plenty of families in SF proper. If you don't have kids, you understandably aren't spending much time in parks, playgrounds, and kid-friendly neighborhoods.