Very good point! To avoid anyone having a dead relative, I think we should all stay inside until no one ever dies again, for any reason. If you disagree, you literally want to kill grandma.

"but you'll get shouted out of the room if you bring up that position even as a hypothetical."

I'm just asking a followup question. Does that read as shouting to you?

Asking someone which of their relatives they'd like to die is clearly not arguing in good faith.

Yes. "I'm just asking a question" is very commonly used for reasons that aren't actually related at all to the question itself.

I flagged and down voted your comment because it's a low-effort appeal to emotion and attempt to shut down further discussion. We can do better than that.

Annndddd, there it is.