Re:A 4-month online dating experiment using 10 fictional sin...
by balfirevic on Tuesday November 24, 2020 @06:18PM
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> Why weight filters are considered an undesirable feature in heterosexual dating apps is left as an exercise to the reader.
I don't get it, why is that?
Re:A 4-month online dating experiment using 10 fictional sin...
by scarmig on Tuesday November 24, 2020 @06:26PM
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Straight dating apps suffer from a relative lack of women to men. On net, women dislike being subject to weight filters more than they like the ability to apply them. Not having weight filters results in attracting and retaining more women to your platform, which means more male users and more revenue.
Re:A 4-month online dating experiment using 10 fictional sin...
by neilparikh on Tuesday November 24, 2020 @07:02PM
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An example of this in action is Hinge. They require users to include height in their bios (and always show it on profiles), but don't have a field for weight.
Re:A 4-month online dating experiment using 10 fictional sin...
by polishdude20 on Tuesday November 24, 2020 @10:28PM
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It's funny how height (a trait which we have very little control over) gets the green card for filtering but weight (a trait we very much have control over) is deemed too offensive to ask for.
I think it's because we know that our weight is completely up to us and that a failure of keeping the weight that is desirable to others is a failure of ourselves. It's a thing we deep down know is our own fault and it scares us. As for height, it's not my fault I'm short or tall, if you don't like it, meh, I didn't screw up or anything.
Re:A 4-month online dating experiment using 10 fictional sin...
by decafninja on Tuesday November 24, 2020 @10:44PM
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Is it market dynamics in action? Someone above said that women hate the idea of having a weight filter, and they tend to have the power on the market here (because they are more "in demand"). I know many men hate being subjected to a height filter, but they tend to have less power on the market (because most are a dime a dozen).
Re:A 4-month online dating experiment using 10 fictional sin...
by scarmig on Tuesday November 24, 2020 @11:55PM
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Yep. Most intrinsic theories of "why not have a weight filter" fail because they can't explain the many online dating sites (primarily LGBT) that do offer a weight filter, because it's very obviously a major factor in attraction that's easily quantifiable. The theory that the available filters are driven by which market participants have market power, on the other hand, does.
For point of comparison, most heterosexual dating apps steadfastly refuse to add weight filters, despite them being the most demanded filters (aside from height). Why? Usually there are excuses about how it's impossible to implement or that the people who want weight filters are confused about what they want, but somehow LGBT dating apps all are able to add weight filters without any difficulty or controversy. Why weight filters are considered an undesirable feature in heterosexual dating apps is left as an exercise to the reader.
And dating apps could, in principle, tell the people who want race filters to pound sand just as much as they tell the people who want weight filters to pound sand. The fact that they don't is a political choice.