Re:Ask HN: What would you do with your last days?
by GJR on Wednesday November 18, 2020 @04:55PM
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If your Father is capable of answering these questions (mine wasn't, due to vascular dementia) then I'd strongly advocate this approach.
Re:Ask HN: What would you do with your last days?
by mceachen on Friday November 20, 2020 @11:28AM
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And, if possible, record his answers, either just audio, or also video, whatever is easier/more comfortable.
I have tons of photos that include my late parents, but videos and audio recordings of them are precious.
"Who was your first love?", "Where did you meet your wife?", "what was your dream job as a child?" that kind of thing.
I found them extremely interesting to read since people tend to write more than they say or would casually mention. I think it also helped the writer as it lessened the fear that things were left unsaid.
Otherwise if he enjoys his routine, maybe it is the most important thing to do right now.