Re:Ask HN: Are you depressed?
by chestervonwinch on Sunday November 15, 2020 @09:09AM
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> ... probably not what OP needs to hear right now.
I'll piggy-back off this to remind people that when someone shares something, they are not necessarily asking for your advice. I know HN is a crowd of problem solvers, but it's OK (preferable!) to simply respond with empathy. If it's not clear, consider asking the person if they'd like your advice before immediately jumping in to try to fix it for them.
I'll piggy-back off this to remind people that when someone shares something, they are not necessarily asking for your advice. I know HN is a crowd of problem solvers, but it's OK (preferable!) to simply respond with empathy. If it's not clear, consider asking the person if they'd like your advice before immediately jumping in to try to fix it for them.