Re:Never Pay for Online Dating (2010)
by HeyHoJoe on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @04:13PM
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Yeah, most men who use them feel this way. I met a guy one time who claimed he had been active on tinder for a year and hadn’t gotten one match. Granted he wasn’t much of a looker but that’s just rough.
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At that point it sounds like he was shadowbanned? Surely someone must have at least misswiped?
Expectation mismatch is real. Unless you pay so you can see what “lowering your standards” could bring (by looking at people who liked you even though you didn’t like them), you can go ages without ever matching, or matching with dead profiles who will never answer.