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Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by treis on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:25AM (#25059666)
>Between the above post, and this post, not good if you read why this is occurring (economic security).

I don't see why this is problematic. The characteristics that will lead to economic success like long term planning, sticking to goals, not being a shit head, etc. seem to directly translate to a successful marriage.

Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by free_rms on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:29AM (#25059712)
If you're not a member of the professional class, there's not a lot of options where long-term planning and sticking to goals at your gas station job get you ahead in life.

The issue is that the ladder for those values to get you ahead has basically disappeared unless you hop on before you're done with high school.

Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by treis on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:41AM (#25059875)
And who's likely to hop on that ladder in high school? People that are good at long term planning, sticking to goals, not being shitheads, etc.

And even if you work a shitty gas station job opportunities you can learn the gas station business, impress the owner, and get them to invest in opening your own. Or you can learn a trade in your spare time.

Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by free_rms on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:45AM (#25059923)
You don't think environmental factors might play in to the type of choices a 16yo gets to make?
Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by bluGill on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @12:18PM (#25060314)
They very much do. Which is why so many don't get out of the rut of their background. Despite teachers and all school pep talks telling them they should go to college most who don't have that in their family background don't do it.
Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by imtringued on Thursday November 12, 2020 @10:31AM (#25070895)
You can give up and lose or you can try again and maybe even win. If your environment sucks that's just one more reason to improve it.
Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by damnencryption on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @05:39PM (#25063884)
> And even if you work a shitty gas station job opportunities you can learn the gas station business, impress the owner, and get them to invest in opening your own. Or you can learn a trade in your spare time.

You most likely will be used to the extreme and thrown away. Lot of places don't care about who is working in low paid skilled jobs. They are as replaceable as ever. Amazon warehouses have machines doing the firing. Soon it will be your gas station. The machine doesn't get impressed unless you break your back.

And conflating poor people with being shit heads is interesting.

No wonder many worker class people feel the ire to hate big tech and workers increasingly.

Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by jkhdigital on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:32AM (#25059764)
Millions of poor immigrants would beg to differ
Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by free_rms on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:36AM (#25059814)
Poor immigrants generally work the shitty jobs I'm referencing and try to make sure their kids are on the professional ladder before finishing high school.

There's still no ladder for them, personally.

Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by nradov on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:53AM (#25060023)
There is a ladder for poor first generation immigrants: starting a small business. Look around you. Who owns many of the restaurants, convenience stores, dry cleaners, landscaping services, etc.?
Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by free_rms on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @12:05PM (#25060187)
That's a really good point, although those jobs still don't pay great from a $/hr perspective.

I think first generation immigrants cut across the conscientiousness/income relationship that's being presented in this thread. It's a self-selecting group.

Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by imtringued on Thursday November 12, 2020 @10:34AM (#25070926)
>It's a self-selecting group.

That only proves the rule. If your environment is awful but you have the right mindset/personality then you can still be successful.

Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by jariel on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:29AM (#25059714)
'Conscientiousness' is the 'Big 5' personality trait here. [1]

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conscientiousness

Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by claudeganon on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:30AM (#25059734)
Seems like you’ve reversed causality there. Poverty is a social context that shapes many of the attributes you’ve described. It’s not as if you took a kid from a rich family and put him in with poor one, his genetic virtues would somehow make him come out on top.
Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by schnable on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:35AM (#25059803)
The causality is reversed, but not in the way you are inciting. Regardless of background, married men tend to make more more and act more responsibly:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2015/04...

Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by eeZah7Ux on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:46AM (#25059940)
Please keep this garbage out of HN.
Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by eeZah7Ux on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @04:05PM (#25062966)
The downvotes are very telling...
Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by bjlorenzen on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:41AM (#25059870)
There’s a lot of hard data which actually suggests otherwise. From the classic paper “Why G Matters”: https://images.app.goo.gl/X4wAFYFC6xQrSU259
Re:The U.S. Divorce Rate Has Hit a 50-Year Low by sjg007 on Wednesday November 11, 2020 @11:39AM (#25059849)
Poverty was a reason to get married in the past. Lots of civil war brides.