If you've never had to deal with the US immigration apparatus, think "Google customer service, backed with nuclear weapons".
For example, I've heard of developers get turned away at the border because they began by saying they were "speaking at a conference/giving a workshop" and noting they were being paid or having their expenses covered as if that makes it more legitimate. Instead, you'd start by saying you're "attending a conference." This is something border officials encounter 1000 times a day and will rarely question further.
Likewise, if you're planning to record a podcast or take some photos at a conference, you don't mention that unless asked specifically because otherwise it puts them on the track of treating you like a member of the "foreign media" and demanding the relevant visa for that when it's really not relevant for most people doing such things as a side effect of their attendance.
Last time I filled out the UK application, I could not find their definition of "work" or "business",
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Visa_Waiver_Program#Visa_Waive...
right? If you are going to work meetings it seems that should be OK.