John Gray: 'What can we learn from cats? Don't live in an imagined future'

Re:John Gray: 'What can we learn from cats? Don't live in an... by rawoke083600 on Wednesday October 28, 2020 @02:09AM (#24915773)

I'am always intrigue by these "range problems / statements" I guess there are no great insight other than most timelines(ranges) are subjective.

My S.O is always complaining that we are spending too little time together( I really don't think so).

I asked her once, so if we had to spend 23.5 hours together that will be obviously too much, and spending 0.1 hour together will be too little (we could both agree on the extremes), yet somewhere between those extremes are a number we both are comfortable with and feel is correct. It's just not the same number.

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Re:John Gray: 'What can we learn from cats? Don't live in an... by jacobush on Wednesday October 28, 2020 @05:04AM (#24916722)

On the face of it, it sounds like you have a great bargaining chip here. For the extra hours you think are "too much", come up with an activity which involves you both, but you immensely enjoy. You might both grow!

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Re:John Gray: 'What can we learn from cats? Don't live in an... by rawoke083600 on Wednesday October 28, 2020 @09:27AM (#24918479)

Good tip :)

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Re:John Gray: 'What can we learn from cats? Don't live in an... by eggsmediumrare on Wednesday October 28, 2020 @03:42PM (#24923258)

In my experience, it's almost never actually about how much time but how you spend that time. TV doesn't count, doing dishes doesn't count... Walks, talking, mutual hobbies do.

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