Anyway, I hear what you're saying a lot, and yet:
- The GOP enables Texas social workers to refuse LGBTQ clients[1]
- The Trump administration allows doctors to discriminate against LGBTQ people[2]
- The Trump administration allows taxpayer-funded adoption agencies to turn away LGBTQ parents[3][4]
- The Trump administration targets homeless trans people[5]
But most importantly, and directly to your point:
- In October of this year, conservative Supreme Court justices chose to speak out against Obergefell[6] at length, for four whole pages, while deciding not to hear another case[7]
[1] https://www.texastribune.org/2020/10/14/texas-social-workers...
[2] https://www.vox.com/identities/2020/4/24/21234532/trump-admi...
[3] https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/trump-admin-s-adopti...
[4] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=avgFhrHqBWM
[5] https://www.vox.com/identities/2020/7/2/21311179/trump-hud-r...
[6] https://www.nytimes.com/2020/10/05/us/politics/thomas-alito-...
[7] https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/courts_law/supreme-c...
I'm confused about what you're saying about ".. don't think you'll find anyone that is satisfied ...". If no one is happy about these things, why do they continue to do them?
Surely you understand the difference between things written in a policy platform and things actually done in practice. There is no GOP rep who is out there stirring anything up on reversing this and despite the words "urging its reversal" there is not and will likely not ever be any action in this direction.
I can't really imagine someone following American politics for more than a year and not realizing this. Almost none of the policy white papers these parties and candidates write will ever be implemented, at all.
The GOP almost never does anything its base actually wants, in the socially-conservative sense. They just pretend they will, to get votes; the same way the Democrats pretend they're going to do any number of things for their base that never happen. It's just kayfabe, it's just an act to get you to vote and legitimize their power so that they can continue to do whatever is easiest and most expedient for each individual politician and player at any given moment.