This is unfortunate, but ultimately it's all about control, and who can reasonably fulfill the requirements in these licenses. The AGPL is specifically made to only allow other very open source friendly shops to use your code that are likely to contribute back, or require a special paid agreement on the side. It's still much nicer than the "code available but not freely usable" model because it has built in exceptions for hobbyists and businesses with a model of software development that you support.