Re:Cheerleading, Monopolies and Sexual Predators
by jtbayly on Wednesday September 30, 2020 @12:39PM
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No. We want to prevent them from becoming victims in the first place. Hence the word "warn" as opposed to the phrase "you had it coming."
Re:Cheerleading, Monopolies and Sexual Predators
by lefrenchy on Wednesday September 30, 2020 @01:30PM
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> warn them all they're setting themselves up for this kind of abuse
"Setting themselves up for this kind of abuse" has a very similar ring to "you had it coming".
People can be abused in so many different environments (sports, school, church, politics). We can't prevent them from participating in any of these things, and tell them they're "setting themselves up" if they do. That's absurd and will never serve to actually fix the root cause of the problem.
There are a host of cultural issues (over-sexualization, hyper masculinity, etc...) that contribute to the pervasiveness of abuse, and without addressing those we will never solve anything. We can also educate our children (or people more generally) on what is an is not acceptable behavior from people in those positions of power doing the abuse.
Are you serious? You want to make victims feel responsible for being assaulted and taken advantage of? They must already feel an incredible sense of shame and guilt, the answer is absolutely not to tell them they are “setting themselves up” by pursuing their interests or passions..