I understand what you're getting at but surely there's a better solution. I don't want my daughter afraid to potentially be in that situation. I want her to be able to act in a way that would make me proud if she was.

I want her to be in a bad situation of any sort even less than I'd like myself to be in one but I'm not going act unreasonably cautious at the expense of something wonderful. I don't want her to do that either.