> I think the best parts of society come from collaborative and social effort- where people agree to share resources in pursuit of a common goal.
people who don't share your (presumably) anti-state views probably think this is basically what government is.
if you rephrased to something like "government action ought to be the last resort for solving the problems of a community", I could agree with you.
I don't think the entire point of society is to force people to participate in your choice program under threat of jailing