Re:How to say no, for the people pleaser who always says yes
by Loughla on Wednesday September 23, 2020 @01:29PM
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>"work-ish" goals.
I meant that not as goals related to work things - but instead, I meant that as in specific, actionable goals in your personal life. For example - "Before October 25th I will 'x' and Before November 3rd, I will 'x' and in the end I will see 'y' return for 'z' money by December 3rd" sort of formal, timelined and official goals.
It's just weird to me to think about a strategic planning process for a home life, I guess.
Does that make sense?
I think you answered my question - your goals/sitting down and planning out your life are sort of what I do, in a way that I would argue is not super goal driven.
I meant that not as goals related to work things - but instead, I meant that as in specific, actionable goals in your personal life. For example - "Before October 25th I will 'x' and Before November 3rd, I will 'x' and in the end I will see 'y' return for 'z' money by December 3rd" sort of formal, timelined and official goals.
It's just weird to me to think about a strategic planning process for a home life, I guess.
Does that make sense?
I think you answered my question - your goals/sitting down and planning out your life are sort of what I do, in a way that I would argue is not super goal driven.