How to say no, for the people pleaser who always says yes

Re:How to say no, for the people pleaser who always says yes by Kiro on Wednesday September 23, 2020 @04:25AM (#24564455)

I've done the opposite. I used to do a lot of stuff I didn't want to just because it was a social norm I was afraid to break. I thought I valued the friendships so much that it was worth it but it made my life a misery.

I've realized that social relationships are simply not that important to me.

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Re:How to say no, for the people pleaser who always says yes by the-dude on Wednesday September 23, 2020 @04:33AM (#24564507)

That is not what he is saying at all.

edit: And you are editting your comment without acknowledging it. Not cool, especially when there are replies.

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Re:How to say no, for the people pleaser who always says yes by hectorlorenzo on Wednesday September 23, 2020 @05:05AM (#24564719)

He is not afraid to break these social norms either.

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Re:How to say no, for the people pleaser who always says yes by Kiro on Wednesday September 23, 2020 @05:16AM (#24564795)

I started editing the comment before I knew it had replies. The meaning should be the same since I just elaborated on it. What was your comment referring to?

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Re:How to say no, for the people pleaser who always says yes by tester34 on Wednesday September 23, 2020 @05:39AM (#24564950)

Why so toxic?

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