We have a saying here: "Today for you, tomorrow for me." I'm not sure how is the best translation.

I have a few teacher assistants in the university, and when possible we try to cover each other and keep the class going. Some problems are not related to kids.

* When the parents die, sometimes you must go all the previous week to the hospital. Or in a better scenario, you have to help your parents to go to the doctor.

* Some unexpected or chronic health problems. Sometimes small changes in the actives distribution can help.

* Problems with the car, for example after a small crash you must take the car to the official mechanics of the insurance.

* One of the water pipes is leaking and it is "raining" in the apartment bellow. The plumber promised to arrive in an hour...

* A trip to a conference or a similar event.

> We have a saying here: "Today for you, tomorrow for me."

It sounds most likely to be 'reciprocity', but could also be evoking either the notion of 'reaping what you sow' or the notion of 'paying it forward'

Yes because those of us who chose to have kids signed onto a social contract. We pay the 300-500k for raising a kid and the government covers basic schooling And child care from 5-18 so we don’t have to double that. Well the government pulled out of their end so now everyone is overloaded. Moreover even private options are overloaded so the system just broke entirely. Employers are cutting parents a break because they still want them around when the system works again. These people have nothing more left to give in terms of free time.

Everything you do depends on the services of other people, which depends on a somewhat stable birthrate. As you grow old and sick, the children of the people receiving "benefits above and beyond those of childless adults" is the only thing between you and a lonely, early grave. You honestly don't understand that?