Eventually "agreed to disagree" (I hate this expression), I moved on from that place where I was stagnating in pain, and found a sensible knowledgeable psychiatrist who happens to be much older, and we made the switch.
It's hard to understate how much of a change that was in my life. I try not to be bitter about any fresh new psychiatry grad on the block, but I really hope they get their shit together as a collective and observe what their own patients (and their older peers) seem to know better than them.
No matter how much tyramine I ingest (which is supposed to be a no-no on MAOI/RIMA) the worst side effects I suffer can't even get anywhere near what the SSRI would TYPICALLY do to me.
On Trintellix: morning headaches, being unable to have any caffeine, becoming lactose intolerant, frequent cramps and diarrhea. Depression very very mildly alleviated. Transition period when stopping the meds: 2 weeks. Cost of monthly refill: $110 CAD.
On Manerix: some cramps if I ingest gigantic amounts of tyramine (I'm french, I'm talking cured meats+cheese plates and red wine bottles in the same meal). Could be back to coffee and milk with no headaches nor cramps within a couple weeks. Depression mostly alleviated. Transition period when stopping the meds: 2-4 days. Cost of monthly refill: $30 CAD.
Oh and the kicker? Manerix is actually one of the few antidepressants that actually has a chance to "increase libido" as a side effect!
I'm glad someone wrote a good article on what I've been hoping to articulate in different places over time, thanks for the share.
[1] https://slatestarcodex.com/2015/04/30/prescriptions-paradoxe...