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Re:Coping with Cats by gumby on Thursday September 03, 2020 @04:01PM (#24368216)
Aren’t these all reasons for having a cat as a pet?

Intellectually it seems strange to have pets: after all we build homes to keep alien species out. Yet when I met a neighbor who didn’t have a pet it seemed weird and even somewhat of a personality disorder. Which is absurd: households with pets are in the minority. But I really can’t imagine living without dogs, cats and assorted other vertebrates.

Re:Coping with Cats by sokoloff on Thursday September 03, 2020 @09:31PM (#24370886)
> households with pets are in the minority

This didn't "seem" right to me, so I went looking. Seems like a little over 2/3 of US households have pets. (I couldn't easily find worldwide figures.)

[0] - https://www.iii.org/fact-statistic/facts-statistics-pet-stat....

Re:Coping with Cats by danbolt on Thursday September 03, 2020 @07:41PM (#24370118)
It's interesting how you find it weird; I'm almost like the opposite side of the same coin.

I have pretty bad allergies to most pets and never grew up with them and find them. Apart from the itching and eczema, I don't really feel like I'm in a home when pets are around. For others though, I think it's the complete opposite. It must be with what we grow up with.

Re:Coping with Cats by gumby on Thursday September 03, 2020 @08:33PM (#24370514)
> It's interesting how you find it weird;

Totally! Having live with pets for almost my entire life, it feels “obviously” normal, but if I step back, I (and the rest of the world’s pet loving minority) are actually abnormal.

Fascinating.

Re:Coping with Cats by valuearb on Thursday September 03, 2020 @11:53PM (#24371556)
I made sure my daughters grew up with cats, because I thought it would make their immune system more robust (having grown up around farms myself) and it looks like it worked. No allergies at all.
Re:Coping with Cats by xyzzy_plugh on Thursday September 03, 2020 @08:46PM (#24370628)
Honestly I have terrible allergies and am so happy to have pets. After around 6mo of cohabitation my allergies settle down, not to zero, but manageable.
Re:Coping with Cats by danbolt on Thursday September 03, 2020 @08:53PM (#24370683)
I tried acclimating through pets at work and taking allergy shots, but I didn’t have any luck improving symptoms over a year. I wish I was in your situation.
Re:Coping with Cats by xyzzy_plugh on Friday September 04, 2020 @11:06AM (#24375589)
I know at least one other person who managed to adopt cats and dogs after I told them my journey. Basically, I took a lot of antihistamines and over-the-counter anti-allergy steroids regularly for the first year or so. I still get allergic reactions if I stick my face into my cat, so I don't do that. Having good air filtration helps, as does frequent vacuuming. Regular hand washing is a must. In general though it's very manageable now. I still take allergy meds regularly for seasonal allergies, so that helps too. Work pets/shots never worked well for me. Good luck!
Re:Coping with Cats by munificent on Thursday September 03, 2020 @08:27PM (#24370483)
> Intellectually it seems strange to have pets: after all we build homes to keep alien species out.

We build homes to keep bad organisms (pests, thieves) out and good organisms (family, friends, babies, pets, plants) in. Species is relatively orthogonal. As long as the organism is a net value-add, in it goes.

Re:Coping with Cats by BLKNSLVR on Friday September 04, 2020 @03:08AM (#24372488)
I actively chose not to replace our cat when it died a few years back because I wanted the freedom to go for holidays or weekends away without having to organise people to look after our pet, being too time poor to give the animal the attention it needs (yes, even for a cat), and also the environmental destruction that cats cause.

Took about 6 months before a local cat adopted us as it's preferred owners, most likely due to the lack of another cat having claimed our yard as its territory. This new cat is the one I've referred to in a previous cat / pet related HN story.