I don't disagree, but my follow-up question with that statement is "ok, now what?"
If you've got a weak/inexperienced developer who's stuck in a framework where they have have to start grokking async/HOF/whatever to solve the problem they've encountered, where do they go from there? It's fine and good to blame the framework they're operating in to be shitty, but they a) didn't have the skills initially to make a solid decision about the framework to use, and b) are now likely stuck with it (unless they're going to do a rewrite with something else).
Early cars were hard to learn, drive, and maintain. Over time they got better via trial and error by manufacturers. The desktop IDE's of the early 90's were like this, but got better over time (until web ruined their market). However, the web is still stuck in 1903: simple things are esoteric. Perhaps because too many other things about "cars" keep changing? Something is wrong. CRUD web dev is a mess.
To my mind they are oftentimes magic pixie dust that can turn a hideous, verbose and inflexible API into something humane and readable.
If you bring up a scenario, I can probably poke holes in it. Done it many times in many debates. I don't mean to sound arrogant, but I keep winning THIS one for whatever reason.
Another issue is even with people with a CS or another STEM background, they only get taught in the "traditional" OOP sphere on top of blocking thread environments. Those usually have a hard time wrapping their heads around higher order functions or async-based development (and to be fair, I also had a hard time when I first encountered it).