Yeah, definitely signs, but who would expect small signals to explode into disaster so quickly after our baby’s birth? We really fucked up.

Would you mind sharing some for the benefit of other married readers?

There is a LOT that happens psychologically to both parents immediately after birth, especially mothers, and some of it can seem insurmountable at first. Postpartum depression (and other conditions) are no joke. My sincerest condolences, and best wishes for an outcome that is in your child’s best interest. I hope you and your partner also get any help you need beyond the legal aspects of your situation. Don’t be afraid to seek help!