Or do you consider all teaching methods equal in effectiveness?
When I teach, my "customers" are my students. I wish to do well by them, not blame them when I failed to inspire. I attempt to learn from mistakes I've made and seen, and try do a better job. My being a passive consumer wouldn't help anyone.
I do blame myself if my expectations didn't match the actual product I received. It is my responsibility to make the best choices for myself. Of course when it comes to college courses, much of the blame for incorrect expectations lies with your advisors. I had the same issue.
Another issue that I see all the time with people who consider themselves "good at math" is that they have no idea what real math is. They breeze through standard "applied" math courses (calculus and prereqs) and then hit a brick wall when they hit real math where you do proofs. This isn't a problem with the material or how its taught, its that people's expectations are way off. It just makes no sense to blame the teacher or the material here.
>I wish to do well by them, not blame them when I failed to inspire.
I commend you for this; we would all be better off if every teacher has this dedication. But, at some point the burden has to shift to the student to find their own inspiration. Once you get past a certain line, the time spent has to be dealing with difficult material, not making sure the students are properly inspired. The line varies depending on the subject. But when you're taking a college level advanced calculus class, you have crossed the line where motivation is your responsibility. I think what you learned taking the course is simply that proof-based mathematics isn't for you.
I didn't like the non-university classes either, but I produced math in them. I wouldn't enjoy programming in PHP in a cubicle, but I can deliver software this way.
Of course, proofs are not all that math is, and I have a vague suspicion that many mathematicians leave "rigor" as a fairly un-analyzed concept, ironically... but math's foundations would be far weaker without proofs.
My disagreements with these societal practices is more about an educational approach, than the technical concepts of mathematics itself. If I went to a very fundamentalist religious school, I probably would have criticisms about it too.
Do you see no difference in the effectiveness of teaching methods? Might I not think one has severe flaws, as a consumer/producer who put in the hard work, and mention improvements?
It was an assumption based on your words (epsilon delta proofs and whatever else we did were tedious) and my experiences with people who dislike classes of proof-based math. No projecting here--I enjoyed my analysis class. We a fair number of epsilon-delta proofs.
My issue with your initial response was that you were implicitly blaming the class for being boring and causing you to lose your enthusiasm for math. My point is that its not their job to foster your enthusiasm, especially at that level.
Now of course, we should always be re-evaluating how subjects are taught to make sure information is being conveyed as best as possible. But we have to resist the temptation to immediately blame a student's failing (by any measure) on the teacher being inadequate in some way. If we start the conversation on that note then the space of potential solutions becomes severely restricted.
I am what you might call an autodidact. When I observe an institution isn't sufficiently good, I pivot and fulfill my requirements elsewhere, for example by reading a book or meeting passionate people informally. I do not believe that this autodidacticism is great efficiency-wise, but often it's unfortunately better than alternatives.
When evaluating the earlier poster's anecdote of teaching 180 adults, of course it's very unlikely that she/he had the terrible luck to draw 180 (or even 100) genetic freaks who were born with terrible attitudes. (And even if she/he did, just wait a semester and problem solved!) Far more likely to me: at least one major institution failed them along the way. So it is clearly useful to identify which ones failed — especially if it's the one you're in, as that's the one you have most control over. (Teachers in particular have a position of power in the classroom.)
(The power of institutional analysis is you can completely replace the people in them, and they'll still function essentially the same.)
More important — if you realize that your approach is clearly unsuccessful, I think you need to stop, reevaluate and probably pivot. Be open to shattering your worldview. Rather than plod on stubbornly in a direction you know leads to abject failure, because most people around you are willing to fail miserably in the same way. (Or because "But it's not in my job description!") I do not intend to be such an extreme romanticist of failure. In fact, today I happened to institute post-mortems at work, to identify our little failures. Not to blame, but to improve.
It is important for teachers to have good attitudes, and it's disheartening to meet those ironically unwilling to learn. But I've met wonderful teachers.
And you want to blame that on the course itself? This is exactly the problem with education--kids feel like its the teachers responsibility to force them to get something out of it. It is your responsibility, no one else's.
Furthermore, I took analysis in college and I gained a great deal from it. It made me a much more precise thinker, mathematically and otherwise. Your lack of growth from the course is no ones fault but your own.
Edit: thinking about the issue a little bit more I realize that its not as clear cut as its "your fault". There is a big problem with how math is taught, especially at the younger grades. My issue with your blaming the course and the teacher for your lack of growth is that once you're at the college level you shouldn't need the teacher to do a song and dance to keep your attention. You're supposedly there for one reason only, to further your own education. Thus the responsibility is on you to get as much as you can out of every course. If the content of the course didn't match your expectations then the problem lies elsewhere, not in the material or how it was taught.