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Re:‘Surge Capacity’ Is Depleted – It’s Why You Feel Awful by orangecat on Friday August 28, 2020 @02:31PM (#24308391)
But it seem that if everyone did small sacrifices could help a lot

Wearing a mask in a grocery store is a small sacrifice. Eliminating all physical proximity with other humans for months or years is very much not.

I think it goes against my internal belief of what being a good person is.

Those friends you're sometimes visiting, after which you beat yourself up for being selfish? Probably many of them are suffering quietly, and seeing you gives them the strength to get through the day.

Re:‘Surge Capacity’ Is Depleted – It’s Why You Feel Awful by Fargren on Friday August 28, 2020 @02:39PM (#24308483)
> Eliminating all physical proximity with other humans for months or years is very much not.

Agreed. That is excessive and is not what I'm doing. I meet with friends roughly two out of three weekends, and I see my girlfriend every weekend (can't really see her more than that, she's working 15 hours per day during the week). But I'm not going to boardgaming meetups, to museums, to the gym, out to eat or to the cinema, which are things I would do three to five times per week on normal circumstances. I'm basically avoiding all activities where I would be in contact with strangers for more than a few minutes.

> Those friends you're sometimes visiting, after which you beat yourself up for being selfish? Probably many of them are suffering quietly, and seeing you gives them the strength to get through the day.

Thanks, that's nice to think about.

Re:‘Surge Capacity’ Is Depleted – It’s Why You Feel Awful by orangecat on Friday August 28, 2020 @03:18PM (#24308878)
That sounds like a perfectly reasonable balancing of risks and benefits, and as far as I'm concerned you have nothing to feel guilty about.