human body: i can produce a fully functioning human being in 9 months, complete with a skeleton, brain, digestive track, the whole 9 yards!
person: great, when will my ankle start feeling better?
human body: a full year and it will never be the same
Unfortunately our bodies follow this same principle.
From nature stand point. Have kids in late teens, by mid 30s the cycle is already starting again. Repairing body beyond 30s is a luxury.
I’ve lived in areas where girls are all on 4th kid by 24. Men’s ages all over the place
Moved to “nicer” areas where 35-45 is first kid for woman. The man is at least 10 years older.
We have good friends in each side
Very different perspectives in each group.
Men aren't having kids until they're 45-55 then? That seems extreme -- how do they find the energy to deal with young kids at that age?
I'm 44 now and one thing I've learned the hard way is that injuries DO NOT reverse themselves. You recover 90% but the remaining 10% is just lost forever.