There are many, many, many folks who work in positions that allow them to provide for themselves, their families, and their communities while working for objectionable organizations.
Look at all of the public servants who are keeping the lights on and trying to keep the US government running. I guarantee you there are folks who absolutely abhor how the system is run, and despise the leadership and politicians (regardless of which leader is in power), but they show up every day and do their job, and try to help people.
It's not ideal, but when you get a burger it wasn't made from a spherical cow of uniform density either...
Engineers who really care about privacy do not work for Facebook like engineers who really cares about peace do not work for the army.
Interpretations of other peoples values is largely skewed by their perception, and rarely takes into account the practical realities of working on privacy and security in tech.