And that's why, I suspect, we talk about it so little and why there's so little "nuance" when we do. I can't in any way relate to getting angry at somebody who's currently living about something that somebody who's been dead for a long time did to somebody else who's been dead for a long time, but I'm painfully aware that there are a lot of people who do. It seems like there's just nowhere to go with that: "you're being unreasonable?" "I'm sorry that you feel that way even thought I don't?" "let's move on as a society?"