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Re:The Art of Not Thinking by dx87 on Monday August 03, 2020 @02:16PM (#24041311)
Not everyone is lucky enough to be able to spend their life doing what they enjoy, whenever they want. I'd bet that avoiding adversity at all costs is a bigger contributor to anxiety and depression because unless you live an incredibly privileged life, you'll eventually have to deal with things you don't want to.
Re:The Art of Not Thinking by ajkdhcb2 on Monday August 03, 2020 @02:20PM (#24041358)
If an action is going to minimise anxiety and depression in the long run, then it's what you want to do, so no mind-games and lying to yourself should be required.
Re:The Art of Not Thinking by Jeriko on Monday August 03, 2020 @02:51PM (#24041772)
It is all mind games. I feel like you are leaning on a negative association to the phrase rather than making an argument. If you say "I don't feel like I want to do a thing, but doing that thing will minimise anxiety and depression in the long run, therefore I do want to do the thing" that is definitely a mind game. It is also a good way to be happier and more satisfied in life.
Re:The Art of Not Thinking by ghostbrainalpha on Monday August 03, 2020 @07:45PM (#24044858)
So you do what is in your long term best interest at all times?

I live in Las Vegas and it feels like my entire city was built on the backs of people who are unable to think in accordance with their long term plans.

Re:The Art of Not Thinking by charlieflowers on Monday August 03, 2020 @09:26PM (#24045544)
Albert Ellis wrote some interesting stuff about this. He called it "long term hedonism." https://albertellis.org/yolo/
Re:The Art of Not Thinking by closeparen on Monday August 03, 2020 @04:51PM (#24043248)
And yet many people find them necessary for e.g. exercise.
Re:The Art of Not Thinking by darkerside on Monday August 03, 2020 @08:41PM (#24045250)
If they are what's required to improve, then do them. Recognize when you no longer need the lies and move on.