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Re:Ask HN: Getting depressed about money. How do I make a me... by mcdoug on Wednesday July 22, 2020 @02:29PM (#23920084)
I am pretty much as high up in my company as I can be without being an owner. We don't use these terms, but effectively I am occupying the role of the CTO.

With the current pandemic I am doing very little going out. That doesn't mean my expenses are better off though. I am directly supporting two kids and my life partner who works but her career is very low paying. She takes care of most of her expenses but housing is on me. I indirectly support two other people because I care about them and their well being. I am stuck living where I am because I am divorced and my ex won't move. If I move I don't get to see my children, which isn't an option for me.

Re:Ask HN: Getting depressed about money. How do I make a me... by mdocherty on Wednesday July 22, 2020 @04:11PM (#23921071)
To me your goal should be a better payed role. I assume with your VHCOL that there are better jobs available. I would work on landing something better at big tech (FANG ideally).

Once you're there you can focus on your side projects or building your own SAAS etc.