I've only had one therapist but she was extremely good. And she would ask a lot of questions. She'd get me to untangle a lot of my thought processes. She'd ask me about the past and have me dig into that and really ask tough to answer questions that forced me to think about why I thought the way I did. It took probably a good dozen or so sessions to get to the point where I was relatively healed and even then it took some time after, but by then I was able to regulate my anxiety on my own.