If you need RDIMM/LRDIMM the only current AMD alternative to EPYC is the recently announced Threadripper Pro. Launch partner is Lenovo with the ThinkStation P620 where you can get 12-64 cores with up to 1 TB of RAM. Expected to be available in September.
Threadripper Pro will be even closer to EPYC with 8 memory channels, 128 PCIe 4.0 lanes and RDIMM/LRDIMM support. However, you'd have to wait until September and the Lenovo ThinkStation P620 may be the only choice at time of launch.
If you can live with 4 memory channels, consumer Threadripper opens up your options enormously.
For my new machine next year. I'm currently leaning towards ASRock Rack's ROMED8-2T, which is available for order but is not "in stock" at most places (e.g. provantage). It's PCIe 4.0, runs DDR4 at 3200 MHz, and has a reasonably long RAM QVL. I'll go with whatever the best value is for a CPU when I pull the trigger on the upgrade.
tl;dr: Lenovo ThinkStation P620 coming in September