Re:It pays to be grumpy and bad-tempered (2016)
by chahex on Friday July 17, 2020 @02:41PM
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An asshole behavior is not asshole behavior if you can accept. That is a judgement the observer has to make
Re:It pays to be grumpy and bad-tempered (2016)
by finaliteration on Friday July 17, 2020 @02:51PM
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I'm not entirely sure what you're saying, here. Are you saying that, if someone is acting like an asshole, those around them should just accept it? What if everyone they work with judges their behavior to be that of an asshole? Does that make others wrong and the asshole right?
Having worked with (and for) a few assholes in my day, I can say that most of the time they aren't as smart, helpful, or clever as they believe themselves to be. Most of the time they add friction to a work environment and make other people around them miserable, and eventually those other people quit.
Re:It pays to be grumpy and bad-tempered (2016)
by chahex on Friday July 17, 2020 @03:28PM
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Thank you for your reply. I meant that grumpy/angry is an objective emotional state it doesn’t need judgement based on our opinions. “Asshole” on the other hand is a subjective feeling. And actually thinking again of your comment now I think you were referring to people who likes to complain but failed to point out the problem and couldn’t find out a solution..
I've worked with plenty of grumpy people that had a no-nonsense attitude but never let it get in the way of being genuinely helpful or used it to put down people.
I've also worked with assholes that were bad at their jobs and pretended that their no-nonsense attitude was helpful when it was not. It's a very fine line to walk.