> 1. allow all men to enter the same bathrooms as women, but stop calling them "women's bathrooms"

Are you planning to enter a women's bathroom any time soon? Do you plan to "self-identify" as a woman solely to go into a bathroom?

There's a great TikTok that makes fun of this concept, that goes a little something like this:

    Would you be afraid if a man who identified as a woman was in the bathroom with you?
    Why would I know?
    Well you wouldn't, and that's the problem. There could be a penis nearby and you wouldn't know it!
    So then why should I care?

Ultimately yes there are other solutions, such as having only gender-neutral restrooms, but the reasoning here only makes sense if you assume that either trans people are predators, or that there are enough people masquerading as trans people who are predators that the danger outweighs trans people's rights. Neither of those things appear to be true, and the whole "you assume trans people are predators" as part of the reasoning is important, it's the same kind of reasoning that was used against gay (usually men) for decades. "Trans bathroom danger" scares is this generations "gay men are going to come after your kids".