To win what? This is not a contest or even a debate where one point of view may prevail... we're just expressing our opinions about Vim and its alternatives here. Obviously, if you like Vim, great! But it seems to me you're the emotional one if you find it necessary to question anyone pointing out they believe Vim is not a good tool at all (it promotes modals, which should have died as soon as they became unnecessary due to hardware improvements as they are objectively harder to use) and wondering why it's still somewhat popular.
I can't speak for other vim users but I think it's pretty obvious to us how other users work without vim and we know you can be productive without it.
Personally I make a point of not telling people to learn vim but equally I think, for example, not having a shortcut to repeat a complex visual selection is a pain.
I never feel the need to enter a thread about IDEs and point out this missing feature (especially if it's a program I don't actually know well and that might not be the case).
However I often see people that don't know vim well make statements like "vim can't do x" without actually checking if that's true.
Then we look "superior" when we point out how to do it in vim.
It's hard to win because your argument sounds like an emotional one.