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Re:Being Alone by meagher on Monday June 22, 2020 @12:26AM (#23597336)
Wow. I came here to write the exact same thing after following the same path.

You call it a “strange mystery,” I call it cognitive dissonance.

Re:Being Alone by neilparikh on Monday June 22, 2020 @06:42AM (#23598865)
It's possible the author is experiencing cognitive dissonance, but you should consider that maybe they've thought about the issue for a while, and come to conclusion that working at Facebook really is the best to achieve the goals they care about. They've worked on Tea With Strangers for 6 years, so I think it's very unlikely they haven't thought about this consciously, and just "deluding themselves", as another commentator suggests.

Now, I'm guessing that it's an obvious conclusion to you that working at Facebook goes against the goals the author suggests, and hence you dismissed it as cognitive dissonance fairly quickly. So then question becomes, why is obvious to you while not to the author? My suggestion is the author is starting from a different set of axioms than you are, which leads to a different conclusion.

I was able to come up with multiple axiom sets[0] that allow coming to the conclusion that working at Facebook is a positive way to achieve the author's goal, within about 5 minutes of thinking, so I think your conclusion is far from obvious.

[0] - I don't necessarily agree with most (or any) of these. My point is more that these sets do exist.

Re:Being Alone by ankitshah on Monday June 22, 2020 @11:29AM (#23601276)
Thanks for jumping in here Neil (and for doing your homework on my background :)

I wrote a little bit more about this in these comments:

- https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23597561

- https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23601253

Re:Being Alone by pwdisswordfish2 on Monday June 22, 2020 @02:37AM (#23597794)
Cognitive dissonance, in addition to self-delusion.
Re:Being Alone by termy on Monday June 22, 2020 @06:04AM (#23598684)
money and ego