Re:Ask HN: What has been the most impactful resource for you...
by UrbanPiper on Saturday June 20, 2020 @11:47PM
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The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi
My favorite quotes:
PHILOSOPHER: To quote Adler again: ‘The important thing is not what one is born with, but what use one makes of that equipment.
The courage to be happy also includes the courage to be disliked. When you have gained that courage, your interpersonal relationships will all at once change into things of lightness.
once one is released from the schema of competition, the need to triumph over someone disappears.
My favorite quotes:
PHILOSOPHER: To quote Adler again: ‘The important thing is not what one is born with, but what use one makes of that equipment.
The courage to be happy also includes the courage to be disliked. When you have gained that courage, your interpersonal relationships will all at once change into things of lightness.
once one is released from the schema of competition, the need to triumph over someone disappears.