I agree with you. We recently implemented a mandatory code formatter for Python code at work. Many people hated it, but I love it for this exact reason. Now, I never get comments about formatting!

In general, I tend not to care a whole lot about style, except to try and match whatever is pre-existing, as long as it’s vaguely readable. Otherwise, it’s basically whatever python-mode on emacs does, subject to a reasonable line length. Formatting nitpicks in code review bug me enough that I always just give in and do what they suggest.