For priority queues, which implementation is optimal depends a lot on your workload (do you need addressability, i.e., a decreaseKey operation? What is the typical ratio of insertions to deletions? Are your keys integers?). I found some slide decks that are mostly in English with some German in between that might go some way to answering your question:

[1] https://algo2.iti.kit.edu/sanders/courses/algen20/vorlesung.... slide 180-207, there are some up-to-date measurements on slide 204

[2] https://nms.kcl.ac.uk/stefan.edelkamp/lectures/ae/slide/AE-A...

There are also parallel priority queues which might be useful depending on your problem, especially if it can be reformulated to operate on batches ("give me the 20 smallest items", "insert these 50 items").

Look up cache-oblivious algorithms. Turns out that random memory access can often be improved upon with smart data structures.