Because that’s not parenting? This may be an unpopular truth in today’s world, but sometimes you need to make your kids do or try things they are resistant to in hopes it gives them skills to better succeed when they are adults.

It might be worth noting that the degree of face-watching during conversation is quite culture-dependent.

Sure, but why does this cross the line into “a kid can’t make the decision for themself”?

And forcing them to do something they find extremely uncomfortable makes you a good parent. No, this is not parenting.